Pathologizing the Heterogeneously Normal! Medicalizing the Healthy! Shaming the Human! Hurting Everyone (who is female, has sex with females or interacts in a world with females)!

Here is my rant, hear it.. roar: Instead of educating, encouraging and promoting pleasure, kindness and receptivity in sex, communication and life in total, we refuse to understand ourselves sexually, espouse accurate and positive sexual information and instead encourage debilitating silence in the face of honest feelings and double standards among men and women that [...]

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And the best chapter title award goes to..

“Hermaphrodykes: Girls Will Be Boys, Dykes Will Be Fags” in the human sexuality-expanding-and-understanding anthology PoMoSexuals: Challenging Assumptions About Gender and Sexuality. Isn’t that good? I think it’s pretty good. “I’m never sure if I have gender dysphoria or species dysphoria. I often try to explain that I’m really a starfish trapped in a human’s body and [...]

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